Juvenile Boot Camps and Boot Camp Alterntatives For Struggling Teens
Often when parents are in crisis with their teenager they turn to the only resources
they know to be available. Most often this is a boot camp or military school.
My child needs DISCIPLINE, so where better than the military or a boot camp!
We have all seen the TV shows and documentaries of children and teens deemed out
of control being carted off to boot camps designed to scare them straight and
break them from their self-destructive course. While they are well meaning, boot
camps often fail to deliver long-term results. When a teen returns home they
usually return to their old ways within a matter of weeks -- and parents discover
that they spent thousands of dollars for no measurable results.
We offer a better alternative with a proven formula for success: Specialty Schools
and Programs. Over 15,000 students have gone through our comprehensive programs
and we boast an 85% success rate and a 98% Parent Satisfaction rate.
Put your teenage tennis shoes on and think about what would have worked to help
you make changes in your life then you'll see the reasons why our programs simply
work:
We help to BUILD UP students, instead of BREAK THEM DOWN.
We get to the ROOT of the problem instead of treating behaviors TOPICALLY (i.e.
drugs are bad)
We give them new TOOLS that will WORK for them, instead of scaring them out of
using their OLD TOOLS
We give them the time to INTERNALIZE new habits and behaviors instead of a "CRASH COURSE"
(Long term programs give LIFE-LONG results, QUICK FIX programs give short term
results)
Our programs are comprehensive focusing on several areas:
- Accountability and Self-Discipline (Merit-based system)
- Progressive Academics (we are fully accredited schools)
- Self Esteem and Character Building Courses / Seminars
- Parent Education/Seminars and Family Weekends.
In addition, we have adolescent psychological and psychiatric services available
at some of our campuses to address psychological or psychiatric needs of teens.
It is our belief that teenagers do not get up in the morning and set out to have
a bad day, although it truly seems that way! I don't think they look in the mirror
and say, Gee, today I think I will have a miserable day. I'll get in trouble
at school, at home, cause as many problems as possible, become a failure and
be as ugly and miserable as possible. We propose that teens are really no different
from us in what they are trying to create for their lives, they have just gotten
sucked into the world and into a negative peer culture which teaches false philosophies
and tools.
What TOOLS is your teen using?
- Defiance
- Disrespect
- Manipulation
- Drugs/alcohol
- Refusing accountability
- Irresponsibility
- Blaming others
- Anger / Outbursts
- Poor Academic Performance
- Poor choice of friends
- Sexual promiscuity
- Verbal or Physical violence
- Problems with the law
- Stealing
- Recklessness
- Laziness
- Low-self esteem
- Lying
Again the results that they are really looking for through these behaviors is:
Belonging
Recognition
Freedom to choose Control over one's destiny
Success and recognition
Pain relief/comfort
Adequate resources for needs and wants
If you boil all these things down it really comes down to the need to LOVE and
BE LOVED.
This is where we step in. We can help your child to exchange their NON-WORKING
set of tools for a set of WORKING tools that will help them to achieve the results
they truly want. We will assist them in creating a purpose and vision for their
life. They will learn the power of accountability, responsibility, self-discipline,
integrity and self-esteem!
We propose that this must be done in a structured environment. Without a controlled
environment the parents attempts to intervene are often thwarted by the influence
of the negative peer group/influences around them that led them to the poor choices
to begin with! Our school environment is one where high-standards exist. We are
the motivators and the safety net. Inappropriate attitudes and behaviors are
confronted, redirected and consequented. Appropriate behaviors are recognized
and rewarded.
In our programs our staff will help them learn how to hold themselves accountable
to their own purpose and vision. As they go through the structure of the program
they will develop positive habits. Positive habits create feelings of accomplishment,
satisfaction and success, which translate into SELF ESTEEM. Once your teen has
INTERNALIZED an appropriate self esteem, they will want to do the right thing
for the right reason's not just because WE want them to, or YOU want them too
but because they will have experienced the positive benefits for themselves!!
This objective cannot be reached in an environment where they are shamed. Change,
as you probably already know, doesn't come from yelling, screaming, belittling,
and breaking a teen. A change of heart and habits comes when constructive tools
can taught, practiced, and internalized. We are the coaches, motivators, and
safety net.
We would never promise you a 30, 60, or 90 day QUICK FIX because there is rarely
such a thing! It's no different than promising quick, painless, but lasting weight-loss.
There is no such thing! After many years in this arena, we know that lasting
changes will come through sustained effort and persistence and in a PROVEN program!
Boot Camp, or Specialty Program you choose. Our track record speaks for itself.
Come to the place with proven formula for success and help your child to truly
become ALL that they can be LIFELINES for teens.
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